Tips: How to Handle 2020


October is a sneak peek into 2020. Next year is coming in fast, so fast you can already see it. You can sense it in your life and see it out in the world. 

There are big bad ass energies in 2020 and they’re all about INTEGRITY. 

You can bandy that word about without really thinking about its meaning, so let’s look at the definition: 

-     the quality of being honest

-     the state of being whole or undivided; 

-     doing the right thing to manifest high principles.


Being brutally honest with yourself is required to successfully navigate next year. You’ve had years to perform at this level and hopefully you’ve taken advantage. Look at yourself without rationalizing, self-aggrandizing or making excuses. If it’s too hard to look deep inside by yourself, ask a close friend to tell you the areas you need to adjust to create your very best life. 


Pursue wholeness by having enough self-awareness to know you are imperfect. You have the courage to acknowledge your weaknesses to give your attention to these weak parts of you and permit healing. You also allow your strengths to shine. You appreciate these strengths as you shore up your weaknesses. 

High Principles

You do the right thing even when no one is looking. It may not be the easiest, in fact, it may be the hardest – but you do the right thing. Doing the right thing, although difficult at times, builds character, wisdom and strength. When you do the right thing, you always exit the process better than you began. Only with integrity can you manifest your highest purpose. 

What about October? 

This month prompts you to see your future. You can do this by reviewing your past. This particular glimpse involves the culmination of changes in your life over the last decade, with certain focus on last year and the most recent activity in April 2019.  

Think of these time frames - 2008, 2018 and April 2019. Each of these time periods offers opportunities for transformation. 

-     What have you allowed to change? 

-     Have you achieved naked honesty? 

-     If so, what actions have you taken? 

-     How have you explored your wholeness?  

-     Are you doing the right thing? 

Yes, these are deep questions, but deep is the name of the game in October. 

This month has a flow of energy allowing reflection, adjustment and alignment. I know you’re sick of hearing this, but it’s so much easier to do this now. 




Set your goals to reach your highest purpose; 

-     Reflect on 2008 and 2018 to remember what has changed in your life, then think back to April to recall the triggers and forces pushing you to transform; 

-     Adjust everything that prevents you from living life OUT LOUD;  

-     Align with your ability to live authentically, unapologetically and unstoppably. 

Use the deep flow of energy to help you.

October’s a lot – but it’s good for you. 

Remember, it’s easier now than it will be in a few months.

Thank you for reading and sharing with friends. 

As always, wishing you joy,